We can try our best to succeed in life, but when our best is not enough then it is better to renew ourselves. Life is not about gaining a series of winning games, it is about cultivating and growing oneself. We need to be keen to learn and to be flexible to accept our differences, our limitations and our opportunities. We need to lead our life from our inner values and to be caring towards others at the same time. It is about not falling trap to negative thoughts cycles, not falling trap to perfectionism, not falling trap to irrational beliefs, not falling trap to toxic environments, not falling trap to negative internal and external relationships. It is about being true to ourselves, knowing and feeling what we want in life, it is about keeping an open eye for new challenges and opportunities, it is about being aligned with life remedy for our success.
Sometimes our inner voice may be contradictory or not available, when this happens we have gone away from our values, beliefs, feelings, our environment may be toxic, our thoughts may be irrational, our attachment to our beliefs and life experiences may need re-evaluating. When this happens first we need to accept ourselves as who we are, with our short comes and strengths, then we should stop doubting ourselves and our abilities, and lastly we should turn the focus inward toward ourselves and do something that will celebrate our existence and our self worth. After we do this we can ensure that we consider new options, we bring change to our life and ourselves, we grow. We need to create an atmosphere where we don’t take things so seriously, we don’t take ourselves so seriously, instead we value and accept ourselves. This helps us to listen to our inner voice on what makes our life better and to be positive in our dealings with reality that we are part of. This is to see the reality as it is, with use in it and part of it, it is to improve our interaction with our inner and outer reality.