We all have been in situations where giving up is easy. But there is hope for a new possibility if we try a little more. We can be a realistic optimist. There is no point in thinking everything is wonderful, when it is not. It helps to push ourselves little bit more sometimes. We can build a better life foundation by not having prejudice towards ourselves and others. This non prejudice can be achieved by being aware, and flexible. We need to be flexible towards helping others and also flexible towards helping ourselves. We can only achieve this by being aware. This awareness stems from communicative and not in form of knowledge. We need to be ready to know what reality itself holds for us. By relating to subject matters and not their outcome we can achieve this. We need to have awareness of relations between things more than subjects themselves.