How do we put our life in order? We need to start with our inner self. We need to create a new discipline for ourselves. This new discipline more than anything should liberate us and help us grow and have structure in life.
Discipline is about what we stop ourselves from doing and what we focus on it is about what is good for us. This gives us control over our life. Instead of overthinking we give ourselves the will to get things done. We need to follow our inner well being and map our way through a fulfilling journey. This helps us have our life in order. This means we have created a life worth fighting for!
There are two opposing sides in life, one is order and the other is chaos. People usually are not in either opposing end and are somewhere in the middle. The reality is that we need both sides of these opposing forces so that we can put our life together. We need a balance, we need to learn from chaos in our life and to improve on order in our life.
Throughout history there are many occasions that we had order or chaos. Therefore what we make of our life and how we create a balance so that things are arranged according to our desires is the key. We need to know that this is an ongoing process and things change according to our environment and our state of being. So the goal is to try and improve order in our life all the time, while have a little bit of chaos.
Order and chaos can be part of the same whole. This is similar to negative and positive, goodness and badness. They all complement each other and work together to create a whole. This whole needs to have a moral direction, and a humanity intention, to ensure that we construct a better reality from within our internal ideas.
Order in life to large extent is dependant on state of play. Order is dependant on who is influencing the game played and how people influence each other. We all play games, we all want to achieve or be happy with life. These life intentionality comes with a price, we suffer, and bearing this suffering helps us to choose a better life. A more fulfilled life. We gain life experience and joy in life as long as we align ourself with what is truly ours. Our suffering in life, our hurt in life, is the price we have to pay for this joy. We experience negative emotions, we experience mistakes, and failures, and owning this experiences help us overcome life challenges and to be intentional in bringing order to our life. We can only do this if we believe and trust in ourselves, we can do this when we are empathetic towards ourselves, when we accepts ourselves and we love ourselves no matter whether we are bad or good in our decisions. Just like plant that need soil, water, and sunlight; We need empathy, unconditional positive regard and congruence in order to flourish and have order in our life. Our intentionality to go towards this is important to create order and stability in our life.