We have a lot of opportunities in life and undoubtedly lose some and win some of them. This means our being is about trying and that is what makes our life meaningful, and not our success.
Daily we have a lot of challenges we face. We may even feel like why we do what we do and doubt ourself. At any point when we have ourself making effort to overcome our challenges, that is what makes a difference. Therefore even so things may not be perfect, as long as we try we can improve ourselves and the environment. That is what we can control. We try, we fail and we get better and this cycle continues. Shame is about us not doing something that we are capable of doing. Therefore feeling ashamed as a result of this inaction. When this happens we need to know that it does not define us, and we need to keep on trying.