We may struggle to find our way in doing things. But there are many ways of doing the same thing, there is not necessarily a right or wrong way in many things that we do. Our methods may not be perfect, they may not be even complete. But giving ourselves room for what we feel we are comfortable with is important. There is comfort in knowing we are making mistakes and that mistake is something we can take responsibility for.
Doing things our way has its own downfalls and strengths. It takes many different forms and overall it is something that shows us our character. We have this all along, it is what shows our process of doing things. In other words it has our stamp on it. Don’t be afraid to do things your way, at times it may be different to others but it is your decision nevertheless. Also we may receive criticism or it may not be beneficial to us when a decision is made but we can always have the comfort that we have followed our own path.
We can get things done in many ways and this is dependent on our confidence and resources. Overall more we learn in life and more we gain experience of our method of doing things better decisions we make. This is part of life, as circumstances change, we change too. However to keep up with life changes we need to improve ourselves and our self acceptance. We live our life and we should live it our way.
For living life our way, we need understanding of ourselves and our environment. It is about being in the moment, being present, it is about the power of now and what happens with doing things in our unique way. It is helpful to be prepared to learn and to improve ourselves, as this helps with our choices. We should not be afraid to take risks. By doing things our way, we take control over our actions and how we deal with circumstances. We may have regrets, we may have doubts but at least we have done things our way.
The issue for human being is that they are times that we deceive ourselves. We deep down may know what is the right thing to do, but yet still we do the wrong thing. There are times that we are lost, we don’t know how to be ourself and be present. We don’t know what are the consequences of us not being ourselves. We sometimes even find our way outside of the reality and not in contact with it. These are problems. We need to be present in what we do, how we deal with things, and our decision making. When we are in contact with our culture, and open to others culture and acceptance of other’s differences. This is when we can live life our way and be present in our connection with others.