In our dreams we are looking for something we cannot find in our waking life. By recreating our life in dream state we address something that was missing in our wake state, we give it more colour, we give it more chance to shine, we give it more possibilities, we exaggerate it, we let be out of control, uncertain, with new and interesting information. Sometimes this can take us to avenues and directions that are not pleasant and sometimes to places where we find joy. Finding a new meaning is what exists on its own in a dream state, this meaning is separate to the wake state and therefore it is dependant to interpretation in the wake state. We go through a process of losing and finding ourselves in our dream, and this helps us regulate our thoughts and feelings in the wake state. The reality is that our findings change at every moment as we live and go through life. We need to understand this process in order to have more control and balance in our life. This is to control where we are and what we do in life. By knowing about ourselves and having the freedom to express ourselves we can know about the changes and new findings that our mind experiences. Therefore we can find more meaning in our life. We can learn from unexpected sources sometimes, therefore being curious and exploring is important. Reality has many aspects and one of them is our dream state. It is important to live a balanced life and to be able to manage ourselves and our experiences better. We need to be aware of our choices and actions in life, these choices are effected by our past experiences (including our dreams), but they are not determined by them.